The Best Gifts For New Mums and Babies, by a New Mum

Morning sickness, pregnancy glow, constant fatigue are all common symptoms of pregnancy that many of us have heard of. What I wasn’t quite so prepared for after the initial physical ailments wore off was the bombardment of “stuff” I was being told I absolutely one hundred percent must have or I will fail as a parent.

Now, obviously, this wasn’t necessarily the narrative that was intentionally being peddled, but my hormonal brain took it that way. My TikTok algorithm was suddenly bursting with video upon video of users telling me which pram, bottles, car seat, [insert any weird and wacky baby device here] to buy. I actually burst into tears in typically dramatic fashion when I attended a Baby Show full of businesses specifically aimed at new parents, but it was a lot.

Once I’d calmed down and got the bulk of big ticket items off my list, I could breathe a little easier. Then the baby arrived, and I soon realised half of it definitely didn’t warrant the must-have-or-world-will-end sales pitch.

Then came the influx of visitors who, very generously, often came armed with a gift to accompany their cuddles. Now, this is in no way supposed to shame any gift givers, I was hugely grateful for every present buyer and their kindness. But, let’s be honest, some gifts were more useful than others. Now, armed with the wisdom of experience, my present buying for new mums and their babies has taken on a different approach. And I’m here to help anyone who is about to browse M&S aimlessly for a gift for a new mum.

Whether it be a baby shower gesture or a “welcome to the world” gift, there are some things to consider if you’re scrambling about what to buy for the new baby or mum in your life. My unofficial checklist for when I now buy includes:

  • Is it useful?
  • Is it a treat?
  • Is it something that will be handy in 6 months time?
  • The reason for the latter is that a lot of people will look to pick up a newborn outfit or a baby rattle, which are great, but in six months time when there is no occasion for presents, you will need a restock.

    So, from experience, take a look at some of the gifts that genuinely were a gift in those first few baby bubble weeks and add a little joy of motherhood to their lives.

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