Foreplay comes in many forms, not just the sexual kind. If you’re looking to get yourself or your boo in the mood for sexy time, sometimes the more subtle and less sexual ways can actually be the most successful.
Romance and setting the mood is all about authenticity and creativity. You want it to feel natural, but also that you’ve put some thought and effort into it.
To get you inspired, we’ve pulled together five of the best ways to get in the mood, without “typical” foreplay.
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Mood Lighting
Mood lighting can totally change the mood of the room, especially if you can make your own colours and sync them up with your lovemaking playlist. These Hexagon Nanoleaf lights ($229) and LIFX Smart Lightstrip ($129) do exactly that, and are also super aesthetic; they’re more art feature than lighting.
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Ethical Porn
You and your boo might like to try watching some porn together, and TBH, nothing quite gets you going like some sexy ethical porn. Some of our favourite sites include Bellesa and Lust Cinema, but you can find a full list of the best ethical porn sites for women here.
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Juicy Playlist
Put all of your favourite sexy songs into one big Apple Music playlist and set the scene with sounds. Hint: this photo is of Anderson Pak and Bruno Mars who recently released a very sexy album together which you can listen to here.
