I'm Delighted to Inform You That These 25 Myths About Turning 25 Just Aren't True

Yes, there’s definitely 25-year-olds that own homes, and I’m by no means shaming them. Owning a home is awesome, but there’s no pressure to own one at 25. Homes are permanent, and if you’re unsure of your future, why do it? And if you can’t afford one at 25, you are absolutely not alone!

Finding the love of your life is great, but 25 is young, and you’ve probably lost and found yourself a million times up until this point. Being single is OK. Being in a relationship is OK. The most important thing is to never settle for anything less than you deserve!

I think a pet peeve of mine is when 25-year-olds say they’re too old for anything. Let’s talk in 25 years when your back hurts for no reason and you have to wear reading glasses to see your phone. Twenty-five is not too old, and while no one at any age should drink irresponsibly, I promise there will be nights where you’ve had too much to drink. The world will not end because it happened, either.

No, you’re not. You’re three years out of college, and good things take time, no matter what it is.

Ah, again with the “too old” remark. The truth is, you’re going to make tons of mistakes in your life, and if you think they’ll magically stop at 25, you have another thing coming.

I hope you have a job that you love, but if you don’t, there’s no need to panic. There’s plenty of time to find a career you enjoy, and it doesn’t even have to be in your 20s.

This is definitely a goal of mine, as I think it’s important for everyone to explore and see the world. However, unless you studied abroad in college, took a gap year, joined the Peace Corps, or were lucky enough to grow up in a well-traveled family, it’s OK to not have visited every continent under the sun. There’s plenty of time.

I’m sorry, but what does this even mean? Yes, you should be mature, respectful, and responsible, but there are plenty of adults who act young, and I like them even more for it.

Don’t be fooled: morning people make up for about 2 percent of anyone I’ve ever met. It’s not that you’re ever a “real” morning person, you just learn to act like one to be a part of the working world. The key is to sleep in on the weekends, or at least, that’s how I get by.

This is nearly impossible when you’re only a few years into your career and have four years of college debt to pay off. It’s definitely a goal to work towards, don’t get me wrong, but if you’re not there, that’s totally OK.

Again, this is one of those things where I think “shouldn’t everyone be doing this?” Either way, yes, you should eat a balanced diet, but it’s also understandable if you get takeout one too many times a week – we’re busy!

Sorry to my 10-year-old self that thought this, but no one has it “all figured out.” Even when we reach our goals, we tack more on. It’s a way of life. What’s important is to always appreciate where you’re at – there’s beauty in everything, even the hardest times.

No. Nope. Not a chance. Not happening. I support myself in every other way, so maybe at 26, I’ll cut the cord.

I know what a vodka soda is . . . does that count?

I can definitely confirm that this is important, and when I do sleep eight hours, I feel amazing. But a full night’s rest isn’t attainable for everyone, especially if you’re working eight hours a day, exercising, and Zooming all your friends for happy hour.

Many people don’t take the college route, and there is nothing wrong with that! I used to believe if I didn’t go to school, I’d never get a good-paying job, and that’s just not the case.

This is laughable, but I genuinely used to think I’d be debt-free by 25. I was very wrong. If there’s any solace to this, it’s that most people have some sort of debt, so if you’re like me and do, you’re not alone.

Some things are just plain scary, like making doctors appointments or traveling by yourself, but that’s just a part of it. It’s OK to be uncomfortable and to be afraid, because that’s when we learn the most.

Levelheaded to one is not levelheaded to another. Yes, you should think through decisions, but it’s OK to consciously make illogical ones, too – even at 25. Sometimes irrational choices are the most fun (and make the best memories).

Sometimes you know, sometimes you have no freaking clue. Kids are cute, but freedom tastes sweet. When the time is right, your gut will tell you what’s best for you. Until then, don’t sweat it.

This is a benchmark I definitely struggle with. I’m all about body confidence and loving the skin you’re in, but I’d be lying if I said there weren’t days I felt just plain ick. It doesn’t mean something is wrong with me, but let’s humanize the fact that confidence is not an everyday thing; it’s more like a most-of-the-time kinda thing, you know? You have to work at it, but it’s worth it because you deserve it. There’s only one you!

The definition of wise is “having or showing experience, knowledge, and good judgment,” which is sort of hard to do with only seven years of experience as a legal adult.

No matter how carefully you plan, the future most likely won’t turn out exactly how you thought it would. Setting goals is healthy, but too many unexpected things can happen (like a pandemic) that’ll throw you off course. It’s best to take the days as they come, as the only guaranteed time you have is the present.

It’d be silly of me to sit here and tell you not to have a savings. If you can, go for it! But the reality is that most Americans live paycheck to paycheck, so if your savings isn’t huge, you’re not alone. And no, 25 isn’t “too old” to start.

At 25 years old, contrary to what a younger version of myself may have thought, it’s human to not be fulfilled with where you’re at in life. Maybe your job’s not up to par, or you wish you had a partner. That’s all normal. The good news is that those small things can (and will) change. Don’t blame it on your age. Instead, identify what’s missing, and go after it!